A recent Miss Manners column addressed a reader’s dilemma about doctors addressing them by their first name while using their title. The reader noted that while doctors introduce themselves with their titles, they address patients by their first names. When the reader tried to reciprocate by addressing the doctor by their first name, the doctor seemed taken aback.
Miss Manners advised that the reader could have had even more fun by addressing the doctor as Dr. Smith but asking to be addressed as Mrs. Jones in return, to highlight the issue of mutual respect. Miss Manners suggested that such a request could have led to an interesting conversation and a clarification of expectations in the doctor-patient relationship.
This situation highlights the importance of clear communication and mutual respect in professional interactions, particularly in the healthcare field. While addressing someone by their first name may seem friendly, it is essential to consider the context and expectations of both parties. Miss Manners encourages readers to communicate their preferences politely and assertively to ensure mutual understanding and respect.
For more advice on etiquette and social norms, readers are invited to submit their questions to Miss Manners via email or postal mail. Miss Manners, known for her insightful and witty responses, provides guidance on a wide range of etiquette issues to help readers navigate social interactions with grace and tact.
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