A woman writes to advice columnist R. Eric Thomas about her husband’s worsening hearing loss and his refusal to get hearing aids. She expresses frustration at his accusations of her mumbling and the strain it puts on their relationship. Thomas advises her that her husband’s behavior is likely a result of his struggle to adapt to his deteriorating hearing, and suggests having an open conversation about their communication and relationship. He encourages her to express her understanding of his frustration while setting boundaries on how he can express it. Thomas emphasizes that the issue is not about mumbling, but about their relationship and finding a solution together. He suggests a compromise where she speaks up more and he wears his hearing aid, but ultimately urges him to stop taking his frustration out on her. Thomas provides his contact information for more advice and recommends seeking help if the issue persists. The article serves as a guide for individuals navigating similar challenges in relationships affected by hearing loss and communication barriers.
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