Press Release: Miss Manners Offers Solutions to a Holiday Party Dilemma
In a candid inquiry, a reader reached out to Miss Manners seeking advice on how to handle a growing challenge with their annual New Year’s Eve family party. For four years, the couple has welcomed nearly 100 attendees to their home, with adults socializing upstairs and children enjoying activities in the basement, supervised by parents. However, a shift occurred last year when several parents began dropping off their tweens, ages 8-13, to attend the party without supervision, effectively using the hosts as free babysitters.
The hosts expressed concerns about being taken advantage of, particularly as they enjoy the camaraderie with fellow parents and want their children to share in the festivities with friends. They questioned how to broach this sensitive topic without discouraging participation or hurting feelings.
Miss Manners provided thoughtful guidance, suggesting the hosts implement a parental supervision schedule. This approach would require parents who previously left their children unattended to volunteer for shifts throughout the night, particularly around midnight when the festivities peak.
By creating a structured plan, the hosts can ensure that parents remain engaged while fostering a cooperative environment for supervising the children. This not only alleviates the burden on the hosts but also enhances the safety and enjoyment for all involved.
For those seeking etiquette advice, Miss Manners encourages inquiries via their website or email. As the holiday season approaches, her insights may just save many hosts from the pitfalls of unwarranted babysitting duties during celebrations.
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