The dilemma faced by Do Gooder, who has a friend that constantly laments the injustices of society despite being wealthy and not actively helping the underserved, is the focus of this Ask Eric advice column. The friend has two homes and ample resources but does not use them to make a tangible difference in the lives of those in need. Do Gooder feels conflicted about confronting her friend’s hypocrisy but ultimately decides to suggest that she sell her second home and use the funds to provide scholarships, rehab services, housing, and other support to those who require assistance.
Eric Thomas advises Do Gooder to offer these suggestions to her friend, framing them as ideas rather than criticisms. He suggests that Do Gooder could also propose joining forces to support specific charities or nonprofits. Despite anticipating a negative reaction, Thomas encourages Do Gooder to take the risk, as one of these “bricks” could pave the way for more charitable actions in the future.
The column concludes by inviting readers to submit their own questions to R. Eric Thomas for future advice columns. Questions can be sent via email to eric@askingeric.com or by mail to a designated address in Philadelphia. Readers can also follow Thomas on Instagram and subscribe to his weekly newsletter for more advice and insights.
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