Jacob Zieben and Jacob Paulson became close friends after meeting in 2013, sharing a bond as young gay men navigating life in New York City. However, their friendship deteriorated after Zieben began dating model Donald Hood, leading to a complete loss of contact. Paulson, though hurt, eventually moved on, learning of Zieben’s wedding only through social media. Recently, he was devastated to hear of Zieben’s death at age 34, found in his Harlem apartment with multiple stab wounds. Police cited a history of alleged domestic abuse involving Hood, who was arrested after the incident and faces numerous charges, including burglary and aggravated criminal contempt.
Friends described Zieben as selfless and caring, often looking out for others, including prominent drag queen Marti G. Cummings. In contrast, while Hood was seen as dominant in their relationship, former friends noted Zieben’s growing distance from his support network after the romance began. Text exchanges from 2015 revealed Hood’s control over Zieben’s contacts, with Hood stating Zieben had “decided to break away from his past” for a “healthy life.” Notably, court documents indicate multiple reports of abuse against Hood dating back to 2022, showing a troubling pattern that escalated.
Zieben had recently followed Paulson on Instagram, sparking hope for a renewed friendship, which now feels unbearably lost. The tragic circumstances surrounding his death have prompted friends to reconnect and share memories of their beloved friend, reflecting on the challenges Zieben faced amidst a seemingly glamorous life, ultimately underscored by violence and tragedy. As investigations continue, Zieben’s friends mourn the loss of someone they viewed as family.
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