A couple planning a milestone anniversary celebration in the south of France is wondering if it would be appropriate to ask for donations to cover the cost of renting a large villa for a month. The rental price is $25-30,000, not including food. While some family members and friends are excited to join the celebration, the couple is hesitant to ask for financial help.
Advice columnist Annie Lane suggests that as the hosts, it is expected that they cover the cost of accommodations, especially since guests will already be incurring other expenses to attend the celebration. If financial assistance is necessary, Lane advises framing the trip as a group vacation that the couple is spearheading and being upfront with guests about the costs involved.
Lane recommends stating that the couple is covering as much as they are able to, and any contributions from guests are appreciated but not expected. Ultimately, the couple should be prepared to carry most of the cost if they are organizing the trip and have their hearts set on the chosen home.
Annie Lane’s column offers advice on various relationship and life issues, and her second anthology, “How Can I Forgive My Cheating Partner?” is available as a paperback and e-book. Readers can send their questions to dearannie@creators.com for guidance.
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